Thursday, December 21, 2023

California Christmas 2023: Day Three

It is just glorious to wake up in Vista, California with my favorite traveling companion. But was a gloomy morning as I walked... 

...up Indian Rock toward... 
steep Apollo. Here I am cheered by the kindred spirit who still has his/her Veterans for Biden poster, now modified to read "2024." I am also pleased that they have added a Ukrainian flag. 

One of these days I hope to find this gate open so I can check out the "Indian rock"  In the  several years that I have been walking this route I have never seen the gate open.

Guess it's still autumn here.

It is hard to think of my good looking life-partner as :Granny"... .

..but she is wonderful...

 ...and beloved in that role.


During the pandemic Vista instituted a drive through light show at Brengle Terrace Park, just down the street from our grandkids house. It was great fun and we got to enjoy it two years ago. Now that "in-person" events are allowed again they have continued the new "Jingle Terrace" with a walk-in event with lots of lights, but also...

... crafts. Our kids colored coloring sheets and wooden ornaments...

And then walked on to the Moonlight Amphitheater where we've seen several plays, but tonight there was... 


The railing became a jungle gym.

Suz was put in charge of a large box of popcorn.

The kids loved the music of the...





The Jingle Terrace Band --Antidote -- was quite good.





Wednesday, December 20, 2023

California Christmas 2023: Day Two

 I walked to Anza the quick way today -- directly by way of Bobolink (with the Dorsey shortcut) and Bobier.

The Dorsey Way shortcut

Made it.


Granny and Suz

Easiest smile in creation.

Watching Bluey.


In the afternoon we visited the Carsons for a pre-Christmas getogether and gift exchange. 
The lighting was poor and the pictures not great but  here's the princess fashion show presented by Bridget...






And then the gift exchange...







Tuesday, December 19, 2023

California Christmas 2023: Day One

I am always interested to keep track of our flight on Delta's flight Tracker. We started out from Atlanta almost due west, and I noticed we'd pass right over Cheaha Mountain, Alabama's highest point and the lower northwestern flanks of which hold the two little lakes that are home to Camp Mac and to my brother David's home. Watching out the window I was amazed to realize I could see the two lakes and the stone retaining wall on David's lakefront property! How about that! 

But a few minutes later clouds covered the view out the window and I turned to the available in flight movies. I watched the old Jimmy Stewart movie, "Shop Around the Corner" and then Tom Hanks'  more recent "A Man Called Otto." Otto ended as we sat on the tarmac at San Diego's airport.

One of our bags was not at the baggage claim, though a very similar bag was leftover. When the folks at the service desk checked, though, someone had realized their mistake (I presume) and here came our big blue bag after all. Whew!. Brannon picked us up for the 45 minute drive turned t an hour or so in the heavy traffic. Sheila ordered pizza en route and we picked it up on Santa Fe and brought it with us to Blackbird Drive. What a blessing to be reunited with those three little girls (and their parents and grandparents).





Sunday, December 10, 2023

Visiting at Mt. Tabor

Until today Sheila and I have been licking our wounds since a few weeks before our church of over fifty years (over sixty for me) officially disbanded and have not gotten out of the house on Sunday mornings, except for one Sunday at Cave Spring United Methodist Church. But we rousted ourselves this morning and drove up through Texas Valley to Everett Springs to visit Mt. Tabor United Methodist Church. 

Our friend Dale McConkey is the pastor there. We should have realized that Dale would be absent, since he just lost his mother-in-law. But if we couldn't hear Dale, what better sub could we have than Wayne Hopper, another friend and once the associate pastor at Trinity. He preached a good advent sermon on John the baptizer and being a messenger in our time. 

It was good to see a crowd there and many folks that we have ties of one kind or another with. Several were relatives of kids I've taught. And one couple not only are parents of one of my students but also friends from the seventies of my late sister Beth. 

Afterwards we were invited to stay for their advent covered dish dinner! It took a LOT of arm-twisting of course, but we finally gave in. <Wink!>  It was a typical absolutely scrumptious pot luck meal with fried chicken and veggies and casseroles and lots of desserts.

For a country church Mt. Tabor has a wonderful church plant with a nice dining room and kitchen and an attached gym/activiteies room.

We got just a few pictures:

Faith and Carl Melear are parents of Connor whom I taught about 15 years ago. BUT my siblings will be interested to know that Carl's Daddy was the owner of the famous Melear's Barbecue near Fairburn where my Dad loved to eat. Faith and Carl both knew my sister Beth and her first husband Randy Hearn. Carl actually attended their wedding.

We love (Rev.) Wayne Hopper. He served as pastor at Mt. Tabor for a long time. He lives practically next door in Everett Springs terms. He is a friend of many in my family including my late Mom and my sister Joan and her husband Jim (another retired pastor).

It was good to visit with Ray Barton. Ray has been my Facebook friend for a long time. He is the nephew of our late dear friend Wint Barton and cousin to our current neighbor George Barton. We enjoyed retelling Wint stories.

We missed taking pictures with a relative of the late Cleo Marion -- a dear friend of my parents in the sixties. Then there were Dunagans and Sharpes and other Bartons and our friend Harriett who has remarried and whose last name escapes me right now.

We missed seeing Dale, but we sure did have a good time worshipping and visiting at Mt. Tabor. About the only other thing that would have made it better would have been if Mt. Tabor's most famous daughter had been home to sing a song or two -- world famous mezzo-soprano Jamie Barton.


Wednesday, December 06, 2023

Update on the Dinky

 The Dinky figures prominently in my story about "Baptism by Water and Fire" and in my childhood imaginings. The Dinky was the "Little Engine That Could" of Milstead Georgia. Ruel Barnett, my grandparents next door neighbor was the engineer. The little train brought cotton and other raw materials to Callaway Mills in Milstead over three miles of narrow gauge tracks from Conyers; then on its return trip bought finished cloth from the mill to Conyers to be transferred to standard gauge trains and sent out into the world. 

Recently Jerry Owens. of the "Milstead Memories" Facebook page, has found unknown-to-me photos of the Dinky, digitally restored them, sometimes adding digital color, and shared them on that page. I'd like to store some of them here for future reference.




























Here's a article about the "Milstead Run" that was shared to the Milstead Memories site:

 


When you drive north along Green Street past the depot, or cross the railroad tracks going west on Center Street in Olde Town, you can see the "Dinky" parked to your right on the railroad right-of-way. The Dinky is a small train engine. You will see the number "104" on the number plate it wears proudly on its bow. It is a Rogers steam locomotive, built in 1905. Owned and operated by the Milstead Railroad, it plied the track between Conyers depot and the Callaway Mills textile mill in the community of Milstead. It hauled cotton from the depot to the Callaway mill, and brought finished textiles back to the depot for shipping to distant points. During WWII, its textile cargo was largely cotton canvas and duck for the manufacture of military goods. It is owned by the Rockdale Historical Society today, and has been for 30 years.

The little engine was retired when the textile mill was closed in 1960 or 1961, and sat on a bit of track at the mill site in Milstead, all forlorn and rusting. A company later bought the closed mill and sought to salvage some of the equipment, including the little locomotive. It was thought to be worth a goodly sum as scrap iron. The officers of the Historical Society inquired as to the possibility of it being donated to the society as a historical treasure. The owners refused as the value as scrap was more than they cared to give up. They would part with it for a princely sum of several thousand dollars. At that time, several thousand was an impressive amount, especially to a small civic organization with only dreams — meaning no money.

I had the pleasure of being the president of the society at the time, and was asked by the board of directors to approach a bank president, Mr. Jim Culpepper, as to procuring a loan to buy the Dinky. His very wise response was, "I’ll bet the society doesn’t have a dime, so how could you repay the money?" A good point, I had to concede. We tried to hatch some plans as to fund-raising to make an offer for the engine. Sadly, before we could come up with a solution, the curators of the Georgia Agrirama near Tifton swooped in and bought "our Dinky" for display at the Agrirama. Appeals to the Agrirama to return "our" little train engine were fruitless. We approached Clarence Vaughn Jr., our representative to the Georgia legislature, who added a bit of pressure, indicating that the train engine had nothing to do with the history of agriculture.

About a year later, as I recall, Ray Magnusson became President of the Society, and a team of members who were more adept at negotiations got busy acquiring some funds and pledges, raising $10,000 which they offered. They were able to buy the Dinky. Having it shipped back to Conyers was another seemingly insurmountable puzzle. The late A.R. (Gus) Barksdale came to the rescue doing what he did so well — negotiating and using his myriad connections to convince the Georgia Railroad to bring the Dinky home. They also laid a length of track on which the engine sits today.

While the Dinky was not allowed to take riders, any number of local boys, by hook or crook, stole a ride on the engine — if only a few feet for bragging rights. The regular engineers over the years of operation included Mr. Ruel Barnett and Mr. Olin Ramey Sr. Also, Mr. Roy Lackey, being a fine mechanic, occasionally "pinch hit" as an engineer.

It would be fitting to name here all the wonderful people who organized and made the Society a viable and permanent part of our community and brought our locomotive home. The Carolyn Browns, Bill Wilsons, Bobby Elliotts, Calvin Floyds, Ray Magnussons and so many others all worked so hard for so long, but Mrs. Joe Brown (Carolyn) was the heartthrob of the society for many years, and kept the fire burning in the other members when they became discouraged from time to time. Someday, her portrait should be in the society’s "Hall of Fame." There were many who contributed so much of their time, talents, effort and funds. Since then, the later generations have also been good for the Society, and their newer visions keep it an interesting and active organization, richly deserving of strong community support.

Incidentally, the Milstead Railroad track was about three miles long, and was — importantly — standard width. Mr. Fuller Callaway, who held many of the top rungs of the Callaway Mills ladder, was Chairman of the Milstead Railroad. He was the subject of a tale told by Mr. Charles Rich, who was the former chief operating officer of the Milstead plant. It seems that Mr. Callaway called the president of one of the large railroads, perhaps the Chesapeake and Ohio, and told him that he and his wife were planning to take a trip and would like to exchange "courtesy passes" with him. The other gentleman said, "Courtesy passes? Why, your little railroad isn’t but about a mile long," to which Mr. Callaway responded, "Maybe my railroad is not as long as yours, but it’s just as damn wide!" He got the courtesy passes.

Rescued from an ignominious death in a scrap pile, our little Dinky is home to stay, near its mothering depot, at least as long as the site owners, CSX Railroad, allow it to remain. If it has to move someday, we’ll certainly keep it here somewhere. It is part of us — a big part.

 

Charles Walker served as the mayor of Conyers for two decades and was the first president of the Rockdale Historical Society.





Friday, December 01, 2023

Poof!

It's official I guess. At midnight a few minutes ago my church membership evaporated. I am no longer a member of any church. I have not moved my membership; I have been kicked out as my church was disbanded.

I received this message, the last I suppose from my church home of over 60n years:


The so-called "disaffiliation team" takes over the multimillion dollar church property for an extremely small percentage of its worth.  They will organize a new group on the site and likely give it a name that will make some folks think it is the same church; it will not be. 

It was the only possible outcome, I have thought, since Bishop Dease made the reverse ruling a couple of weeks ago. And today the bishop made it official. We lost by one vote in the special conference and by ten votes in the church conference in July.  It isn't right in any way except legally, but it is the right thing legally and I believe in following the law. Unless the rump group that is taking over the church property makes some ridiculously careless error (and they won't)  in the next 31 days it is final.

Exclusion is the new organization's only reason for being. The group that will organize in those buildings is founded for one purpose -- and the ballot that accomplished the dissolution made it plain -- and one purpose only: to exclude certain people. Can you imagine belonging to a church that's sole reason for being is that? As I said, they will use a name that will confuse some folks but the church that was on that site from 1875 until tonight is no more. 

Many of those folks are people I love and in other ways admire. I wish those people well. 


Saturday, November 25, 2023

The Seven

Today my sister Joan shared this  picture of "The Seven" -- me and my six siblings. This was taken outside Trinity Un ind Methodist Church on the day of my Mother's funeral on August 6, 2021. Our Beth, the youngest of the girls, died one day less than a year later on August 5, 2022. So sadly, this was the last photo ever taken of "The Seven". 

My Mother used t enjoy bragging that seven is the number of completion and perfection. 

Joan's children presented Joan with a framed copy of this picture for her birthday yesterday, as you see with the background obscured to emphasize just us. I thought I'd preserve a copy of it here. Each of these six siblings of mine have had an important influence on my life and I cherish them all. How we miss Beth.


Left to right: Sharlyn Beth Shaw Roszel, Charles Terrell Shaw, Deborah Ruth Shaw Lewis, Janice Dianne Shaw Crouse, Lynda Joan Shaw Turrentine, David Baird Shaw, Mary Carol Shaw Johnston.
I find it interesting that many people make a big deal out of which is the first name. That has never been true in our family. Three (Debi, Jan, & David) go by their first names while four (Beth, Joan, Carol, and myself) go by our middle names. My mother (Sarah RUTH Baird Shaw) and grandfather (Benjamin WILSON "Wilse" Baird went by their middle names, as did my uncles (Wilson GRICE Baird , John THOMAS "Tom" Baird, and James LEON Baird), and aunt Esther LOUISE "Sis" Baird