Friday, December 29, 2023

California Christmas 2023: Day Ten

When I saw the giant leather-like bag in the front playyard I didn't know the entertainment it would give three little girls and their grandfather for an hour or so this afternoon.













We brought several Christmas ornaments that Brannon had chosen from Mother's estate. It feels good to see a few of those things that used to hang on Mother's tree here with her great-grandchildren.


We ended up finding a dozen of these little homemade ornaments that Mother  used on her tree. David, Lillian, and Brannon each chose them so I alloted four to each of them.



I chose this little stained glass angel because we bought several ornaments similar to this very early in our marriage and I suspect this is one we gave to Mother, though I am not sure of that. 


Wednesday, December 27, 2023

California Christmas 2023: Day Nine

I seem to be a little better today, but Sheila is miserable. I'm guessing she is about a day behind me on the rotten-old-cold cycle. My days and nights are all messed up. 

One bright spot is that I have been listening to Jon Meacham's And There Was Light, subtitled Abraham Lincoln and the American Struggle

I have been listening to parts of this for a while now and at least twice I have gone to sleep after forgetting to set a timer and so had it in my ears for long periods, having to then try to find where I left consciousness. So I have heard parts of it more than once! 

Meacham has given me a better understanding of Lincoln, I think, and a greater appreciation of the way he tried and often succeeded in guiding events toward his two goals of preserving the union and ending slavery. It often meant that those who should have been his allies were very impatient with him. He was acutely aware of the political realities, knew preservation of the union was a prerequisite of abolition and therefore many times progress toward abolition meant, paradoxically, that that cause had to be put on a back-burner.

Of course this book was written during another period of great unrest, fear, and right-wing extremism. Just as in the mid 1800s folks were justifying evil by reciting scripture, we are beaten about the head today with selected verses of Leviticus. (Never mind the abominable mixed threads and the whole New Testament!) So we cannot help but see the parallels. 

Brannon came by with the three girls to take me with them to the Agua Hedionda Discovery Center. Suz was sleeping when we got there so Brannon stayed in the car with her while Ruth, Clem, and I visited the center. Near the entrance we walked past enclosures for a kestrel and then the planet's fastest animal - a peregrine falcon. Inside Clem headed straight for the snakes, of course. 

Posing with a snake -- I've forgotten which one.


Hiding out



They've added this little stage since we were last here.


Wingspan


Tire snake


Striking a pose with fairy houses.


Watching a tortoise


Succulent wall garden

I made a donation then we looked around inside and out a while. Clem found a scavenger hunt sheet and we all worked on that till they both had found everything. They were rewarded with a Pokemon card apiece, and, of course, wanted something from the gift shop. I let them each pick something ($5 or less each); Clem chose a Black snake slap-bracelet --


 and Ruth a "fossil-embedded" chunk of plaster with a tool for scraping and brushing the plaster. 







Before we even got to the center Clem started asking me about... ABRAHAM LINCOLN! "Grandshaw tell me about Abraham Lincoln." Turns out somehow Abraham Lincoln had come up in her kindergarten class and when she asked her Mom about him, Brannon said, "Ask Grandshaw." So here I am in the middle of this very interesting but very serious book on Abe and my 5 year-old granddaughter wants to know about him.

I asked what she'd like to know about him. "Why did John Wilkes Booth shoot him?"

Wow. So we're starting there?






Tuesday, December 26, 2023

California Christmas 2023: Day Eight - Boxing Day

 Still ill. Yuck. But the kids came over for a while this evening and though I'm sure we weren't very good company the girls had a great time anyway.

Clem mostly played on her own in the playroom but Ruthie and Suz had a ball playing a new game -- Boomerang. Ruth invented it. She would have one of us give her a little shove when she stood before us as we sat on the couch. She would then spin across the rook, arms outstretched in an arc through the kitchen and back into our laps. Repeat. Suz soon caught own and followed suit.










Later Brannon walked the kids down to the neighborhood park to play till dusk.

Monday, December 25, 2023

PTSW - My Own: True Treasures

 

Exchanging Gifts

What gifts will you bring your Papa?

Pure  gold, however they’re made—

Wrapped in sunshine of smiles;

Tied up with love that won’t fade.


What gift will you bring your Lover?

Its rich, whatever you’ve spent,

You’ve  paid thrice in sweat and tears

and my promises, broken or bent.


What gifts can I bring my daughters?

What present is worthy my wife?

Tawdry trinkets diamonds would seem

On these precious true-treasures of life.

by Terrell Shaw



California Christmas 2023: Day Seven - Christmas Day

 I am feeling better but still a little feverish and coughing and congested. Sheila has gone to share Christmas at Anza while I stay here in Carlsbad. Yuck. She cheered me with a text that included this video...



And Ruthie wanted this picture sent to Grandshaw.

Sheila made cinnamon rolls for everyone...



Later the whole family came over to Carlsbad. The girls showed me some of their Christmas  bounty -- Clem her big snake puppet and Ruth her Pikichu doll. Then they went to the neighborhood pool for the "polar plunge!"  It turns out the water is heated.



Then leaving me in Carlsbad they left for Heather;'s house and the annual Christmas gathering of the Bass and Carlin families. Sheila sent this picture:





Sunday, December 24, 2023

California Christmas 2023: Day Five & Six

 Christmas Adam and Christmas Eve and a blur.

I woke up with the beginnings of a cold. We packed up to move from Blackbird to Carlsbad.Then to Anza for a while.   Suz was sick and threw up. While there we Face-timed with Lillian. I was feeling bad so we went back by Blackbird to fold clothes we'd washed. We stopped at Walgreens for some NyQuil on the way to Carlsbad. I took the NyQuil and went to bed.

Lousy night. Woke several times to take more meds and back to sleep. 

On Christmas Eve I was miserable. I think I had a low-grade fever. I stayed at Carlsbad and nursed my cold while Sheila did laundry and grocery shopped. We watched part of It's A Wonderful Life, but I couldn't stick with it and made my way back to bed.

Just a miserable two day fog. Missed the Christmas Eve services. Ugh.

Friday, December 22, 2023

California Christmas 2023: Day Four

 

Back up Apollo this morning. I tried to keep the  cell phone plumb so that the steep grade is discernible.









Thursday, December 21, 2023

California Christmas 2023: Day Three

It is just glorious to wake up in Vista, California with my favorite traveling companion. But was a gloomy morning as I walked... 

...up Indian Rock toward... 
steep Apollo. Here I am cheered by the kindred spirit who still has his/her Veterans for Biden poster, now modified to read "2024." I am also pleased that they have added a Ukrainian flag. 

One of these days I hope to find this gate open so I can check out the "Indian rock"  In the  several years that I have been walking this route I have never seen the gate open.

Guess it's still autumn here.

It is hard to think of my good looking life-partner as :Granny"... .

..but she is wonderful...

 ...and beloved in that role.


During the pandemic Vista instituted a drive through light show at Brengle Terrace Park, just down the street from our grandkids house. It was great fun and we got to enjoy it two years ago. Now that "in-person" events are allowed again they have continued the new "Jingle Terrace" with a walk-in event with lots of lights, but also...

... crafts. Our kids colored coloring sheets and wooden ornaments...

And then walked on to the Moonlight Amphitheater where we've seen several plays, but tonight there was... 


The railing became a jungle gym.

Suz was put in charge of a large box of popcorn.

The kids loved the music of the...





The Jingle Terrace Band --Antidote -- was quite good.