Wednesday, April 23, 2014

Gleaning Facebook: Benny Loyd

Benny Green Loyd

Benny with his daughter Diane at her wedding


Benny, Diane, Lori, and Evelyn

Another week, two funerals. Just now learned of Mary Doster's death (see below). Last night Sheila and I attended the visitation for my first cousin, Benny Loyd, down in Rockmart.

Benny, an older teen in my earliest memories, was my beloved Aunt Vek's son. Funerals bring us together. As sad as we are, it still felt good to be with Evelyn and her four kids. And to see my cousin Marian, Benny's sister. And David and Susan, her son and daughter. And catch up. As time has passed and later generations have multiplied and gone off to soccer and softball and proms and all the living of their own lives, it gets harder and harder to get the cousins together. That's a pity. We have already lost a bunch of us. There's been lots of water over the shoals at Porterdale since we climbed that big ol' chinaberry tree behind Mama Baird's house and threw those hard yellow berries at each other. Or ate Aunt Mary's divinity and fudge or one of those clove-flavored candy sticks they kept around the house. . Or played hopscotch on the sidewalk out front.

So you Baird cousins and families, let's make the Labor Day reunion a big one this year. And let's hear lots of stories of Benny, and Bobby, and Gail, and Jerry, and Jack, and Don, and the others who have left us.

It's always interesting to find unknown connections at visitations. Brenda Henderson who taught with me at Armuchee was there for her friend Diane, Benny's daughter.

Comments:

Chris Frazier

I'm sorry to learn of these two deaths. Mary Doster was a friend whom I had not seen for years. I don't understand why we're here, but I know that the Leech is coming for us all.


Deborah Lake Dawson
I just lost someone yesterday. So hard to loose icons in your life.

Donald Murdock
Sorry for your loss, Terrell. Reminded me that I haven't spoken with my aunt, Gwen Murdock, in awhile. Will phone now. BTW, for all us Murdock cousins it was a huge crabapple tree in my grandma's back yard on E. 9th. Great memories.


Julia Hilburn Dent
What happened to Mary??? She was a bud and one of my good friends Aunts!!!

Wanda Mulkey Dagraedt
Sorry for your Loss.

Barbara J. Gale
So sorry about Mary. She was one of my first friends in Rome.

Gary Greene
So sorry my condolence's

Rose McDonald Darby
Scary when members of one's own generation are dying. All my mom and dad's brothers and sisters are gone. We are now the grandmas and papas, the old ones. Hard for me to believe. I still feel 30.


Terrell Shaw
I'm inexperienced at this being old thing. I hope to gets lots of practice so I can eventually get it right!


Rose McDonald Darby
Jim's dad is living with us; at age 91 he is getting it right!

Terrell Shaw
Yep. I still have my 91 hr-old Mom, who is working on another book! The key, I think, is to not slow down.


Rose McDonald Darby
I agree. I hope to still be running about at an old age.

Sunday, April 20, 2014

Gleaning Facebook: Spring Wildflowers at Arrowhead

Aesculus pavia (Red Buckeye)

 




Podophyllum peltatum (Mayapple)
Sarah Anne: 
Are these the same things as the maypops? You can eat?!
Terrell Shaw: 
What I called Maypop as a kid was Passion Flower (Passiflora incarnate). It has a large seed pod that a ten-year-old can pop under his foot. Mayapple has an edible fruit but I've never heard it called Maypop.

Toxicodendron radicans (Poison Ivy)


Geranium maculatum (Wild Geranium)




Stellaria pubera (Star Chickweed)

Cornus florida (flowering dogwood)



Thursday, April 17, 2014

Turrentines

From Joan Shaw Turrentine's Facebook:



1977 - Lyn and Steve Turrentine were in Debbie Blanton's weddiing

1972 - Daddy was behind the camera - as usual.
Raymond Atkins
Terrell, you look like one of the original members of Iron Butterfly!

David Marlin Rains
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Haley Elizabeth Shaw
My father.... No, just no...


Laurie Craw
Terrell, those striped pants. What were you THINKING? Now don't go digging out old pix of me and MY fashions....There are some real zingers in my past too. LOL

Ooops. I swore off FB for a week. Oh well.


Terrell Shaw
I was thinking, "I'm so purty, why I'll bet in 40 years the girls will STILL be noticing my snazzy seventies attire!" And you are. 

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Ruth Baird Shaw
That was back in the dark ages when we had only 4 grandchildren!

Is this the Epworth Parsonage?


Bill Fortenberry
I'm pretty sure Terrell Shaw wore those pants to McHenry on more than one occasion. This decision was not held against him.
P.S. I don't know all the folks in this photo, but I am struck by the uncanny resemblance of the young man in glasses on the far left to Dow Turrentine, the gene pool is obviously deep.


Terrell Shaw
William, that's Dow's great uncle David, who also happens to be my baby brother. 

(And, of course, you recognize Dow's daddy , front left.


 

Sunday, April 13, 2014

Gleaning Facebook: Visiting Kindermusik

from Kathie Ortwein Inglesby's Facebook: Mr. Terrell Shaw shares an alligator! -----------------------

I love storytelling. Y'all probably haven't noticed that.

Yesterday I had a gig with a whole bunch of really little guys, the Kindermusik classes at Berry College's Krannert Center ballroom. A hundred and a quarter or so folks - pre-school kids and their grown-ups sat around (or ran about) on the big ballroom floor singing songs with fun motions led by Wendy William and Kathryn Nobles.

Then I told my version of David Holt's version of Joel Chandler Harris's version of "Trouble!", the story of how Alligator got his crackly, scaly, skin. After the story poor Boudreaux, our four-year-old gator endured fifteen minutes of terror as the kids and grown-ups paraded by to gently stroke his tail or touch his soft little webbed feet. (Boudreaux really needs to be retired and replaced by a hatchling, he has lost his love of show business.)
I had a ball.
Storytelling is for children of all ages from one to eleventy-one. And I have told to almost all those ages.
If you love storytelling btw, join our new storytelling group. Our organization meeting will be Monday evening, April 14, 7 p.m., at Trinity United Methodist Church, Rome GA. Y'all come!



Comments


Michelle Moriarty Smith That's the thing I remember most about you as my teacher-your story-telling! (Next would be the the love and wonder you inspired for the outdoors!)

Terrell Shaw That warms m'soul, Michelle, m'Belle. Thank you.

Darrell Fedchak Can I video chat in? It's a bit of a commute from Pennsylvania...

Terrell Shaw

It'd be great wif me, Davy Jones. I'd havta turn that job over to one of the kids prob'ly.

Jane Jameson I with I had been there to hear about Boudreaux!

Wednesday, April 09, 2014

Gleaning Facebook: New Storytelling Group for Rome

 Organizational Meeting

Don’t miss the meeting to organize our new storytelling association for the Coosa Basin.
Monday, April 14, 7 p.m.
at Trinity United Methodist Church
on Turner-McCall Blvd in Rome.
We will meet in the fellowship hall.
Park at the rear of the church.
Please let me know if you plan to be there. This is a very important meeting. We need to discuss several things including:
• River Tales at Waterfest. May 3.
• name, officers, bylaws, etc.
• next year’s Big Fibbers™ contest.
• other (send me agenda items you’d like us to consider)
I will chair the meeting until we elect an official presiding officer.
-Terrell

Gleaning Facebook: Phil Gingery is Too Liberal!?

 Hilarious. Phil Gingrey, the right-winger who has the stupid slogan "Stop Obamacare, Save America" emblazoned on every campaign poster, has dared to timidly try some tiny bit of independence from the NRA thugs and he gets this.

Even poor Phil Gingrey is too "liberal" for the gun-nuts!




Comments

Wendy Davis
I saw an anti-PG ad on TV by the same creeps who are telling lies about Michelle Nunn. Reap the garbage you sow, Congressman!


Laurie Craw
Funny. What did he do to deserve this, fail to pay his NRA dues on time? Oh, I see. Limit magazine size, etc. How brave of him.


Jackson Williamson
Phil Gingrey LITERALLY came to my house last night and took my guns.
All of them.
Thanks, Obama.


Laurie Craw
Jackson Williamson
You have guns and didn't USE them to protect your Second Amendment rights???? You didn't stand your ground???? Guess you didn't have time to load, huh? LOL


David Marlin Rains
Love it - More porridge please. Please, Sir, I want some more.


Terrell Shaw
Yes, David, I love that pitiful face the "Georgia Gun Owners" found of Poor Phil. He's got to be thinking, "I sold my soul. What else can I do?" 


David Marlin Rains
Er, Terrell, I'm the cynic, not you. 

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David Marlin Rains
You might be a United Methodist if…
1. “Coffee hour” literally takes an hour…and lots of times more.
2. No one has to say that there will be food at a church function—it’s just a given.
3. No one has to discuss who’s bringing what dish to that function—it’s been figured out for years.
4. People are thrown into a panic if the coffee and donuts aren’t out by the time church lets out.
5. You, your brother(s), your sister(s), your significant other, your parents, and your children (if you’re a parent) are all on different committees in the church and none of you remember how you got there.


David Marlin Rains
Have Repubs over for Potluck. 

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Terrell Shaw
Now how in the world did we switch to a dissertation on Methodists?


David Marlin Rains
John Wesley wasn't cynical.


Terrell Shaw
Most of the folk at my UMC ARE Repubs. Ugh.


David Marlin Rains
Yes, I was raised United Presbyterian. Liberal mainstream Protestantism which I thought UMC was the last stronghold...


David Marlin Rains
Terrell, please label O/T Just thought you getting cynical of Gingrey. Didn't seem to be your nature.


Terrell Shaw
Yes, I broke my rule about avoiding invective, but when an idiot makes the focus of his election campaign the slogan "Stop Obamacare. Save America." I can't pretend he is credible. I have seen Phil Gingrey up close and personal for years. I saw him bore five hundred 8, 9 and 10-year-olds to distraction while making the most embarrassing, pointless, shallow, and depressing remarks by a United States Member of Congress ever uttered. How the man made it through medical school is a complete mystery.

Gleaning Facebook: 1000 'Friends!'

My goodness! An old neighbor from Cedar Avenue, Buddy Chambers, just "friended" me, and gave me an even 1000 Facebook friends, the vast majority of which I actually know.

Comments

Laurie Craw
Wow. You need to start selling ads.


Nancy Johal Singh
Wow you really are popular...I think I might a few friends requests after this year but I doubt I will reach a 1000 anytime soon


Laurie Craw
You're back to 999. I just Unfriended you out of spite. Kidding.


Terrell Shaw
I have "unfriended" a few, and a few have "unfriended" me over the years, Laurie. But I have few spirits on my list as kindred as yours. Please remain my friend!


Laurie Craw
Well, OK.


Terrell Shaw
Nancy, there are just a lot of folks who a curious about what fool thing I'm gonna post next. 

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Raymond Atkins
the richest man in town...


Terrell Shaw
You are right about that, Ray. Blessed, even.

Tuesday, April 08, 2014

Gleaning Facebook: The Test That Shall Not Be Named

The Test That Shall Not Be Named Fortnight at school begins this morning. Best wishes to students and teachers. For the first time in a "Fortyear" I am not having to endure these incredibly boring and stressful days at school. Retirement has its blessings.

Comments

Jane Jameson
Retirement is not for the faint of heart! You will find something to occupy your time and interest.


Jody Brock
Unfortunately our children are having to endure what bureaucrats deem necessary.


George Barton
Is this the test where the teachers in Atlanta cheat so the children will pass, and they will get a bonus, or go to jail if they get caught cheating?


Laurie Craw
I'm not up on the issue of testing TS. What is different now from when we oldsters were in school? I vaguely remember the occasional standardized test.....


Terrell Shaw
Mounting soapbox...

When we were kids, Laurie, we took nationally normed achievement tests. Today the tests are criterion-referenced. They are based specifically on the Georgia Performance Standards for each grade level. Students who score 800 or more "meet" standards. 799 or less and they "Do Bot Meet" standards (Shame dispair, and misery). 850 and more they "Exceed standards" Teacher evaluations are based, in part, on how students achieve on the five subject-area tests.

Students must "Meet", supposedly, to advance to the next grade level. In reality the Reading test must be passed in third, and the Reading and Math in the Fifth. Fourth grade is not a "must pass" grade so fourth gets somewhat neglected like other "Non-critical" years.

Of course the home lives of the kids, relative native-intelligence, class size, charter/private school raiding of a community, etc. are not factored. When you take those things into consideration, public schools at least match and often surpass private schools on the TTSNBN, and, as a bonus, the kids may actually learn to respect a variety of races, religions, and socio-economic levels.

It takes a very dedicated teacher to jump through the bureaucratic hoops, make sure the GPS standards are mastered, and still teach the important stuff: how to work in a group, how to really use the language (speaking, listening, reading, writing), how to shake hands, what a republic is all about, how to find your passion and live it, to respect yourself and others, to really look at a rock, or leaf, or butterfly, and discover something for yourself, and of yourself, etc.

Down from my soapbox.


Jane Jameson
Your students were very fortunate to have you teaching them.


Ralph Noble
One more for me, with new CRCT coming out next year and bound to worse, just another reason to retire.


Stacie Hembree Buffington
Kyle says he has been thinking about The Test That Shall Not Be Named AKA Lord Voldemort Be Dead. Lol


John Countryman
May they die an ignoble death on the sharp point of reason!


Jane Jameson
I am thankful I no longer must be subjected to those exams! Terrell, I am grateful for you as a teacher who taught children like my grandchildren. You have a gift.


Alice Jeffries Keel
Can we say "read aloud"? - from a nameless accommodating person.

Saturday, April 05, 2014

Gleaning Facebook: Money in Politics (and more)

The party label is not all, but it is important.
If you love….
• gridlock,
• potholes,
crumbling public schools,
• closed state parks,
• government shutdowns,
• meaningless saber-rattling,
• continued concentration of wealth in the bank accounts of the 1%,
• tying the hands of law enforcement in the fight against gun violence, and
• more Supreme Court decisions like Citizens United,
… then vote for the Tea Party Republicans
As for me, I'll vote for…
• liberty
• compromise
• good public schools
• great state parks open to the people who own them
• an open government
• tough diplomacy
• policies that promote the general welfare
• sensible gun policies that protect gun rights and the people, and
• overturning Citizens United and McCutcheon
… I'll vote Democratic.



Laurie Craw Eloquent as always, TS.

Jane Jameson Neither side accomplished anything, so having lofty ideals are unproven!

James Grant I would vote democratic but I think we need a third party as the two we have now are both corrupt and are are beholding to big business and big $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$


Michael J. Burton Seems a lot of Americans have a misbegotten notion that someday they will be billionaires. Duped again.


Terrell Shaw Billy, in a perfect world. But we have a two party system. There is no doubt that in 2000 the majority of the people preferred Al Gore to George W. Bush. But because some thought there needed to be someone who compromised less with the right, a significant number on the left voted for third party candidates like the very improbable Ralph Nader. So instead of an imperfect Al Gore, they got the shallow George W. Bush who embroiled us in two wars, cutting taxes while we were at war, appointing two extreme economic conservatives to the Supreme Court, and ignoring the environment, civil rights, and terror warnings. Al Gore might have infuriated the far left, but there'd be no Citizens United or McCutcheon atrocities, or abandonment of voter rights by the Supreme Court. The attacks of 2001 might have happened anyway, of course, but we'd have had a better chance of catching them with a President who respected the anti-terror effort that was in place. The extreme tax cuts would not have happened, and the Great Recession would not have happened IMO, but if it did, stronger measures would have been taken to overcome it, etc., etc., etc. In the real world, support the mavericks all you want up till the general election, but in the general, vote Democratic or you are, in effect, voting Tea Party.


Raymond Atkins What amazes me more than anything is how many "just folks" in the economic sense see their interests as being better served by the party of plenty (the Republican Party), when in fact the politicians aligned with that party enact legislation that harms regular people over and over again.

June Lovenbury Warfield Raymond, there are many people (on both sides) who base their decision on where the candidate stands on abortion and same sex marriage. The tea party side seems to want less government control in financial affairs and more government control in bedrooms. The democratic side seems to want more government control with things like contribution limitations (i.e., financial affairs) and less government control in bedrooms. Two quadrants are missing (more government in both financial and bedroom issues/less government in both financial and bedroom issues). IMHO


Raymond Atkins I think hot button issues such as abortion and same-sex couples are just that: hot button issues that are used as smoke screens. "Look over here while I vilify same sex marriages and don't look over there while I rob you blind."

James Grant Terrell I usually do vote Democratic because of what you stated However my hope is that people will see that the two parties are just the right and left of one party that owes its existence to maintaining the status quo. A system that maintains the influence of corporations and the ultra wealthy over the government that is now in all accords a “oligarchy'' a government of the 1%, by the 1%, for the 1%. What we need to do is get money out of the election system and stop treating corporations as if they have the same rights as people. Sen. Bernie Sanders has proposed a constitutional amendment to restore the power of Congress and state lawmakers to limit campaign donations. I would also say that third parties have had a major influence on U.S. policy and political debate. The Socialists popularized the women’s suffrage movement. They advocated for child labor laws in 1904 and, along with the Populist Party, introduced the notion of a 40-hour work week, which led to the Fair Labor Standards Act of 1938.

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From Robert Reich:


At a time when American democracy seems to be drowning under big money and a Supreme Court indifferent to its corrupting effects, as well as the distortions of gerrymandered districts and efforts by some states to suppress the votes of minorities, it's worth pausing to consider what Afghanis have just accomplished. Despite murderous Taliban attacks and vows to punish anyone who participated (identifiable for days by the ink on their fingers), long walks to polling stations followed by hours of waiting in the cold and rain, and a legacy of electoral fraud, Afghans have turned out in large numbers to vote for their next president and representatives. Just as remarkable: despite threats and intimidation, two women are running for vice-president -- the first time women have ever run for national office there -- and more women than ever are on provincial ballots.
Democracy is fragile but the determination to be heard is not. America is the cradle of modern democracy, and we are not going to allow it to succumb to the greed of a handful of billionaires or the bigotry of a handful of throwbacks. We're going to get big money out of our politics and protect every citizen's right to vote. We're going to return our democracy to the people. You with me?

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Terrell Shaw
The rulings of the Roberts court are corrosive to liberty.The greatest potential harm of the Bush presidency, so far, has come after he left office. The Iraq war was a horrible, tragic, mistake. But we'll recover.The Citizens United/McCutcheon rulings may destroy our liberal democracy and replace it with an oligarchy. Soros? I am opposed to oligarchy even should the oligarch occasionally agrees with me. I do not want even a benevolent king.


Brian Barcomb
But wait.... The left cheer Roberts w his decision on Obamacare.


Terrell Shaw
Roberts got one half-right. 

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Terrell Shaw
Do you support the Citizens united and McCutcheon rulings, Brian?


Raymond Atkins
In spite of this obviously flawed ruling, I am encouraged these days. The super rich were not able to buy the last two elections and I don't think they will be able to buy the next. I think the rest of us have reached the tipping point. We have had enough.


Terrell Shaw
You are correct that they failed to buy the last two presidential elections, … but they made great strides toward winning all sorts of other elections. Koch money is going to all sorts of races and influencing state and local legislation. And our government has been practically crippled by the 2010 Tea Party takeover of the people's House, enabled by GOP Gerrymandering, in turn enabled by the nationalization of even very local races. When I get a political or push-poll phone calls I alway chat up the guy/gal on the other end and find out where they are --- and they are low-paid folks who are usually happy to tell you. They are almost always in other states or even other countries. Money/publicity/advertising for Floyd County Republican candidates often comes from far away.


Neal Brackett
George Sorros and Warren Buffet are not super rich? I guess I wouldn't know. I have never played golf with either one... But our president has, many times. You never see Obama in the hood, just on the golf course.


Terrell Shaw
Repeating: "Soros? I am opposed to oligarchy even should the oligarch occasionally agree with me. I do not want even a benevolent king."
I also am not so stupid as to unilaterally disarm wile the Roberts court allows the other side to corrupt the system … at least Soros is working to limit the obscene political contributions that he is making toward those ends! Hows that for a paradox. But the Kochs have much greater resources and are much more secretive about their activities and have outspent Soros. Still I long for the day when we find a way to maximize disclosure and minimize the influence of money in politics. Until that day I hope Soros and others will continue to make donations on "my" side.
And our President gets to the "hood" more often than the avg chief executive, for heaven's sake. The party of the Bushes attacks the biracial kid that grew up in a broken home as somehow "elite". Sheesh.


Laurie Craw
Having great wealth, either inherited or earned, would be, it seems to me, a great responsibility. What I object to is using one's great wealth to buy political power when that wealth could do so much good. And I don't mean charity. The very wealthy have business skills and business contacts they could use to create new businesses that are models of social good on all levels while also being profitable. We could have full employment at living wages and little need for government welfare programs. We could have clean energy and virtually pollution-free and waste-less industry. The billions of private dollars spent on elections if redirected by wealthy people with a vision and a commitment to the betterment of society could solve most of the problems our governments are being forced to deal with.


Raymond Atkins
The hood?


Michael J. Burton
Travesty in the making.


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Jane Jameson
You honestly believe this?


George Barton
It's called equivocation. The debt is still increasing, but at a slower rate, maybe. Read between the lines here, http://www.usgovernmentspending.com/federal_deficit_chart...
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Terrell Shaw
Yes, Jane, I more than believe it, after 67 years of breathing and over fifty years of observation, I know: the trickle-down faith of the let-free-enterprise-be-unfettered crowd does not work. Period.
Providing support to the real job creators (the consumers of the middle and lower classes) DOES raise all ships. In the period after WWII when unions were strong and taxes progressive we reduced deficits, the middle class grew and prospered, and America became the envy of the world.
When Reagan's "revolution" turned us away from that path we began a decline, during which the middle classes stagnated, the poor increased, and the rich cornered an ever increasing share of overall wealth. Without the partial reprieve of the nineties under Clinton, and the stimulus efforts of the Great Recession recovery under the last suddenly wide-eyed bit of W. and the first years of Obama, we'd be in even worse shape. That recovery has been greatly hampered by the obstructionism of the Blind-Faith-in-Trickle-Down Tea Party Republicans.


Raymond Atkins
Maybe we should begin with "we had money in the bank at the end of Bill Clinton's term" and work forward from there...


Terrell Shaw
I'll take Clinton's lies about abominable personal behavior, and Obama's overstatement about keeping bad insurance for a very small minority in a program that would greatly improve coverage for almost all, to the lies about WMD, aluminum tubes, Iran/Contra, and trickle-down of Reagan & Bush.


Howard Smith
Terrell Shaw, all of your friends that don't believe President Obama, swallowed hook, line and sinker the lies about WMD's in Iraq that cost us over two trillion dollars, thousands of American soldiers lives and tens of thousands more wounded and disabled, not to mention the hundreds of thousands of innocent civilians in Irag for whose death we bare responsibility. At the same time they fail to give credit to President Obama for not losing even one American soldiers life in a war he started....which is zero wars. All of these folks that can't believe President Obama has reduced spending, decreased unemployment, created jobs, helped the stock market reach new heights, seen the housing market recovery and the auto industry saved, have no trouble rejecting the notion that during the failed Bush presidency our economy all but collapsed, our national debt soared and our standing in the world community took a big hit.....just as they never seemed to realize that calling something "enhanced interrogation" is just another name for torture. The mind can certainly play funny tricks on true believers. Soon, I suspect, they will be purchasing reprints of his paintings to hang in their homes and call it great art.


Jane Jameson
To each his own.


Raymond Atkins
To be fair, Howard, W is a better artist than he was a president...


Jane Jameson
Tell the people of Detroit how Obama saved their city. I am sure they would be understanding. So many move here to our area seeking employment and a better life. Our industries are glad to have them in our GOP state!


Howard Smith
Raymond Atkins, you got me there. And, Jane Jameson, I never said he saved Detroit, although, he did stop the bleeding caused by years and years of GOP economic policies that almost destroyed the city. The right wants to say it was labor unions, but anyone who has actually studied the cause of Detroit's problems knows better. And, regarding our GOP state, and other GOP states like ours, those are the ones as I am sure you know that are most dependent on federal handouts....the transfer of federal tax dollars is from the Dem states to the GOP states...go figure.